I'm a family guy who is addicted to swim/bike/run and anything to do with getting out into the backcountry wilderness areas. This blog focuses on the swim, bike, run and other various aspects of my attempts to finish in the top ten percent of my age group in whatever race I do. It used to be all about finishing the legs of an Olympic Distance triathlon: swim in 20 minutes, bike in 60 minutes, and run in 40 minutes. Now, it's more about training well and finishing well.
Wednesday, December 28, 2011
Thinking about symmetry and muscle imbalances in triathlon
I want to write about identifying causes of muscular imbalance and how prevent or fix them.
First, let's look at Rob in the video below (I don't know Rob; I found this on youtube and thought it was a good example of what I'm talking about). Notice is right shoulder muscle during the contraction phase. Freaky! Aside from the discussion about machine v free weights, think about how long he has been doing the exercise that way to get that kind of imbalance.
And here's a video about running with a muscular imbalance. Again, this was from a quick youtube search. The good stuff starts at 1:36, but the beginning is a nice summary and educational portion.
So what do I think some common symmetry problems are in triathletes?
The core has to be the most imbalanced muscle group we read about, and it's a bit more complicated than just side to side. In fact, most common is probably a weak core that leads to lower back pain. Stronger core equals stronger lower back, and that will help you maintain an aero position on the bike and definitely help you on longer runs.
Swimming Imbalances: With so many of us having trouble getting a good streamline, there are many areas that lead to imbalances.
1. Breathing: this one is pretty obvious, and I'm probably the lead problem-child because I simply decided not to worry about bi-lateral breathing. Anytime you are doing something to the same side repeatedly, you are asking for trouble. I know this causes a somewhat major imbalance in my stroke technique and I think it leads to differences in my abs. The solution is obviously to breathe bi-laterally, which most people say will also greatly improve your overall technique and certainly streamline you better.
2. "Strong-arm" pull associated with a strong side of the core: Again, we are going back to the core. A good swim technique involves using the core muscles as a platform to push against in the water. If you are pushing stronger with one arm, you are leading yourself to an imbalance in your core as the associated side gets stronger, too.
Bike Imbalances: These are a little harder to think about. With a bike leg that drastically lags behind my swim and run in terms of where relative times in races, I figure I must have a few imbalances.
1. Quads and Hams: Most people will tell you to pedal in circles in effort to ensure you are not "mashing." Well, that mashing will certainly lead to an imbalance between quadriceps and hamstrings. There must be a perfect ratio of "quads to hams," but I don't know it. The point being that bicyclists should consider if that ratio might be out of whack and creating an imbalance of quads-to-hams effort.
2. Core and Lower Back: Well, here is that pesky core showing up again. Staying in an aero position is not something everyone is immediately comfortable doing. It takes a bit of getting used to. And part of that transition is building an equally strong core and lower back that facilitates that position. I think you'll also find that as you cycle more in the areo position, your abs become significantly stronger.
3. Right versus Left: Everyone has a dominant arm, hand, and leg. It could be showing up in your bicycling. Catch it early in the season to prevent other problems. I personally think (without any review of studies) that a muscular imbalance between right and left can create knee problems because one leg ends up "mashing," which leads to the knee problem.
Run Imbalances: This isn't as simple as you would think. How hard can running be, right? Weeeellll, it can get more complicated than just putting one foot in front of the other as quickly as you can.
1. Posture: Go back to the second video today. In the first few slides, you can see different yellow lines and how they line up (they should be symmetrical on both vertical and horizontal axis). When you get tired and start slouching, you are showing your musclular imbalances. Which way do you lean when you slouch? Concentrate on good posture when you run, and that will help immensely with any imblances.
One of the main triathlon magazines had an article about running posture and it directly affected the outcome of the race. Lines were drown on the men racers, with the question something like "based on the running posture, which of the eight racers won the race?" Well, the guy that was at the back of the pack won the race because he had perfectly vertical posture. It's really a shame that I can't find that article now (and spent 30 minutes looking!).
2. Heel strike: Without getting too far into this issue, suffice to say that different angles of foot strike will create different muscles being used. Ensure each foot is striking the ground in a similar fashion.
Weight lifting: Refer back to Rob at the beginning of the video. You don't want to be like Rob. Here are some thoughts I have about weight-lifting for triathlon and some specific items to consider while you are lifting weights.
1. ALWAYS think about each and every action of each rep. You should know the general "lines of movement" that the exercise should follow in order to properly isolate the muscle group you are exercising. If you feel your whole body working to complete a rep, you are probably doing it wrong, and you'll end up like Rob (read the note of the video for more insight). Isolate the muscle on each side properly to ensure you are lifting the same amount of weight on each side.
2. "Lines of movement" should be the same for both sides. The "lines of movement" are the actually paths in the air that your body makes. For example, given a bench press with individual dumbbells, are your arms following the same path through the air relative to your body? If not, you will eventually end up with a muscle imbalance.
3. Angles: Similar to "lines of movement," the angles at which you are working need to be the same. For example, on the leg press, both feet should be in the same position relative to your body in the seat. Be picky about this! A little three-degree angle difference could lead to some significant imbalances. And are the angles close to what you are actually doing on the bike?
That's my attempt at a quick note about symmetry in your training. Obviously, there is much more to be said about this. But my point is that everyone should be thinking about it during their training sessions. Sometimes, there is a pre-existing imbalance that is hurting your technique which then hurts speed and endurance. Or, because you are new to the sport or just not thinking about it, poor form will lead to an imbalance, which can be terribly difficult to train out of.
Tuesday, December 27, 2011
More on big breakfasts
I've posted before about big breakfasts, and this is a little two minute clip with more to say about that. My breakfasts run in the 800-1000 calorie range (based on how many cups of cereal fit in my standard size breakfast bowl), so when he talks about 610-calorie breakfasts, it really isn't that much.
Take a peak and start eating big in the morning:
Racing Weight: The Benefits Of Eating A Big Breakfast - Triathlete.com
Friday, December 23, 2011
1st Day of Christmas: One Philosophy of Consistency
Everything up to now has focused on gear. But gear is not the most important thing in triathlon training and racing.
1st Day of Christmas: Consistency!
All the best gear in the world is not going to get you to the finish line of your big training days or big races. Only training can get you there. A smart training plan that builds upon weekly successes to create monthly successes that then create annual successes. And the foundation of all that training is CONSISTENCY.
It's really that simple. For 90% of the triathlete population, consistent training at a moderate pace will bring consistent improvement at a moderate pace. And then it's just a matter of time until you break into the upper echelon in which gear and equipment provides specific advantages.
But even the philosophy of consistency has it's own foundation. To be consistent, you have to be dedicated to get up every morning and hit that scheduled workout of 3-4 sessions for each sport per week. You have to have a schedule that let's you get in consistent workouts. Most importantly to me, you have to coordinate your family time such that they remain the priority in life.
Consistency will indeed pay off, usually fairly quickly for people just starting.
A key element to how quickly it pays off is if you are hitting the right intensity level. It certainly shouldn't be high intensity in the very early stages like the first three weeks, when you should be simply setting a groove for yourself and letting your body adapt to new stresses. The second three weeks, you can turn up the intensity a bit, and then you'll start noticing the changes towards the end of the third week. Each week, you either maintain an intensity and volume level or increase ONE of them (don't increase both because then you'll certainly lose consistency from lack of recovery or injury).
Of course, if you workout consistently at too low of an intensity level, you'll never see a difference. I like to keep things around 80% of max heart rate to ensure I maintain consistency. Anything harder than that, and I have to start worrying about appropriate recovery towards the end of the week (and I certainly do do the harder workouts! they are scheduled appropriately for recovery). I always here about people who go to the gym or walk EVERY DAY but can't lose weight...well, short and simple....their intensity level is too low or they haven't adjusted calorie intake.
If you want to improve in triathlon, CONSISTENCY is the key.
2nd Day of Christmas: Two things you DON'T NEED
So, let's get started....
2nd Day of Christmas....Two Things You DON'T NEED.
You DON'T NEED a really nice bike. In fact, you DON'T NEED a time-trial (TT) bike with aero-bars. What you do need to do is figure out your goals for triathlon and then get gear that helps you meet those goals. If winning the Ironman World Championships is one of your goals, well...ok...then you probably need a really sweet $10,000 bike. If you want to enjoy the effects of triathlon training...better mood, better physique, lower cholesterol, and all those things....a bike can't help with those things. Take a year or two beforel you go big-spender on the bike, and you'll be much smarter about what you want and what you should get. I didn't wait, and I now have a bike I'm not completely happy with (although it fits exactly what I wanted...basic TT bike).
If you already have a mountain bike, then look for Xterra races in your area. If you already have a road bike, then spend your money on better things like a wetsuit, pool membership, and such. For most people, time and money spent on taking ten minutes off our time should be spent on the swim.
You DON'T NEED all the supplements that the marketing guys and gals throw at you. Yes, I just did a post about Hammer Nutrition and all the great things that will do for you, but re-read it and you'll see several mentions about how I minimize their intake. Like the bike, they are really expensive and might not directly help you meet your goals. My annual budget for supplements is about $70-$100 (a bag of protein mix, a bag of Recoverite, a couple bottles of gel, and a few individual servings of HEED), and I think that is almost excessive. I save alot of the individual serving items from races and use those during breakthrough training sessions. This is all for what I consider a fairly competitive season. You can get all the nutrition you need (and get from supplements) from stuff likely already in your kitchen.
Wednesday, December 21, 2011
3rd Day of Christmas: Three Visions of Sugarplums and Really Sweet Gear!
1. Power meter: I want a real, no-kidding power meter that works in all places and at all times. Right now, I use the "meter" that comes in the Kurt Kinetic wireless bike computer, and it calculates the power rather than measures the power. It works good enough for what I bought it for. But I want something that is always truly measuring the power and will give me the downloads of data for analyzing it like some freak scientist.
2. Computrainer: These look sooooooo AWESOME! I honestly have never had the opportunity to ride on one, but how could the theory go wrong. All reviews are that it is quite realistic. The premise is that the computer changes the difficulty of your trainer compared to the elevation and other factors of the course you are riding. You can make up courses with topo maps (ie the course you've ridden three times weekly for the past five years), or you can buy courses that also come with live video as if you were riding down the road.
3 Endless Pool: I have the place already picked out where this will be put in our yard and attached to the house. Now I just have to win the lottery! Wouldn't it be great to have this at home for a 30 minute swim every morning without the pain of dealing with a packed pool and the denizens of the local pool? I can only dream of this sort of thing!
Tuesday, December 20, 2011
4th Day of Christmas = Running Shoes
Monday, December 19, 2011
5th Day of Christmas = Headphones (that work for triathlon!)
Here are five headphones for you to check-out, in order of usefullness.
I currently am using a pair of Jayfree Freedom headphones. I like them the best of all the bluetooth headphones I've tried, but they still aren't perfect. I haven't run with them because I'm not doing long nine-milers right now and I only recently got them a couple months ago. They fit snugly in my ear during long bike rides and require minimal fidgeting. If you're going to get a pair of bluetooth headphones, I recommend these, if only for the sweat-proof guarantee. I also like the wire that connects the earbuds because it is fairly flexible. Someday they'll come up with headphones that don't need to be attached to each other, and then I'll finally be happy. Finally, the box these come in and the carrying case are a bit over the top for me.....cut the price by $15 and skip the packaging bling for happier customers.
Second in line are the Backbeats. I like these for driving and listening to movies at home on the computer, but I don't recommend them for triathlon (although if you must, they would probably work). Like the Freedoms, the wire between them makes them much more comfortable and flexible than the S-9's.
Third is the Motorola S-10s, theoretically an upgrade from the S-9's. I had three pair of S-9's, all of which shorted out. These are ok for driving or office-work but I can't recommend them for anything related to triathlon.
Here are some swimming MP3 players. I haven't tried them. I talked to one person at the pool who had them (the Finis) on, and she was happy with them. I can't see them staying on after a hard push from the wall. I suppose if you are doing only kicks, they would work ok. I think you should focus on your swim technique instead of music during swim workouts. But here are two options for you....
6th Day of Christmas: Hammer Nutrition
Sunday, December 18, 2011
7th Day of Christmas: Bike Tools sets from Park Tools
Bikes need maintenance. Good maintenance requires tools.
Get the tools you need to start at home in this tool set from Park.
Park Tool Home Mechanic Starter Kit - SK-1
by Park Tool
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Saturday, December 17, 2011
8th Day of Christmas: Technical T-shirts
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Friday, December 16, 2011
9th Day of Christmas: All the Sufferfest! Videos
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Thursday, December 15, 2011
10th Day of Christmas: Running Gloves
Wednesday, December 14, 2011
11th Day of Christmas - Swedish Goggles
Tuesday, December 13, 2011
12th Day of Christmas = 12 sets of earplugs (20 for $16)
I’m going to go the “Twelve Days of Christmas” here, showing some of the gear I use and why I use it.
Please note that I don’t have any affiliate links to the supplies and equipment I’m listing. In other words, I’m not making any money off these links.
Twelve sets of ear plugs
3M Tri-Flange re-usable earplugs.
A lot of people will tell you that you should wear earplugs on the swim to prevent dizziness coming out of the water. That’s absolutely true when swimming in the open water. Another reason I like to wear earplugs is to keep the noise level down while swimming laps. Seriously, if you have never worn earplugs in the pool, go ahead and try it because it will be a night and day experience as far as the noise level goes. And once you swim laps with earplugs and the peace and quiet they bring you, you will always want the earplugs.There is a difference between these and the foamies that are really cheap. These just go right into the ear with no rolling and such. They are quick and easy and effective. Don’t get the version with cords because the cords get in the way and they also conduct sound. These are a very flexible plastic that you won’t even know are there once they are in. They come in different sizes, so if you’ve never worn them before, start with a medium and large to see which fit the best and then order in bulk to accommodate several sets in different lockers/bags for swimming and also in the garage for lawn-mowing, sawing, and all the other power-tools.
The link above takes you to a five-pack for about $10. I like to order one pack of twenty from Grainger for $16.00 every two years or so because I tend to misplace them.
*Please note that I don’t have any affiliate links to the supplies and equipment I’m listing. In other words, I’m not making any money off these links.
Monday, December 12, 2011
Non-Standard Cross-Training Opportunities for triathletes in winter...
Winter is definitely here, although you wouldn’t know by the amount of snow on the ground here in town. But it’s cold! And there is snow in the mountains. I could actually ride my bike on the snow/ice-free streets!
But I like to mix it up a bit. Here a few of the different opportunities presenting themselves lately.
Johnny Jump-Up! We need an adult version of this. It wears out Noah after 20-30 minutes. Paul and Noah both absolutely loved this thing!
Annual Christmas Tree hike! 30 minute walk up a trail, cut the tree, back to the parking lot for recovery drinks. The weather was so AWESOME on Saturday when we did this. No Wind. 100% bluebird skies. About 15 degrees. One kid on your back + pulling one in the sled = SWEAT!
And the last one for today……getting Kiddo #1 geared up!
Friday, December 9, 2011
Coming Soon!..... AmphibOps Triathlon
One of my primary goals for 2012 is to get the "AmphibOps Triathlon" brand moving along. I've been posting to 20-60-40 Triathlon for a few years now, and I think it has run its course. I previously wrote that I wanted to be running the AmphibOps Triathlon website by October 1, coinciding with the beginning of my winter training season. Well, my winter training season is really just now getting started, and so is the motivation to get moving with AmphibOps Triathlon.
Soooo.....I sat down tonight and wrote out a plan of at least 30 post subjects for the months of January, February, and March that will lead a newbie or intermediate triathlete through a detailed planning process that will hopefully lead them to a successful execution of their goals at summer races.
The plan is to introduce very specific and detailed subjects for you to read and think about, and then add into a developing triathlon plan, with the growing template available for copy/paste via google docs. At the end of the two or three months, you'll have a good plan based on principles and processes I've learned in the Marine Corps.
The first post will go out this weekend some time, with the follow-ups in the series coming out every two or three days.
I hope I can help at least one newbie or intermediate triathlete learn something new and meet their goals in 2012!
Thursday, December 8, 2011
The kinks are almost out....moving into a full-on training schedule
Thursday, December 1, 2011
Xterra wetsuit sale.. GREAT DEAL!
https://www.xterrawetsuits.com/index.php/2011-ironman-arizona
Awesome deal....60% off.
Tuesday, November 29, 2011
Consistency in the early phase of a training program
Here are some of my thoughts on how to maintain consistency in the first phase of a new training program:
1. Consistency trumps everything, especially intensity. It is more important to just get on the bike or run for twenty minutes then to worry or think that that 20 minutes won't do anything. It will do wonders simply because of the consistency.
2. As I increase my number of consistent workouts, I can see my capacity improve. For instance, my first workout on the bike trainer in six months, I kept a steady state of about 15mph for 20 minutes before getting tired. Two weeks later, I'm already up to 17.5 mph steady state for 20 minutes before getting tired. The percentage of improvement is good for morale and motivation.
3. Scheduling is the most important thing. I'm in a period right now when I go for several months with minimal interruptions on a macro-scheduling level, and three weeks when I can look at every meeting and schedule around them to maintain consistency.
4. It's those pop-up events that stop a workout that kill consistency, and those are the things you have to be prepared to adapt to. Find a way! That's when you have to say 20 minutes of anything is better than a skipped workout...this helps you find the time in your day.
5. Keep the goals very simple, with very little beyond the consistency aspect. I have very simple goals in this first six weeks phase: 1) maintain consistency. 2) get 150 "points" per week in that 100 yards swim = 1 point, 1/4 mile of running = 1 point, and 1 mile biking = 1 point. This keeps me keyed on consistency over volume or intensity (although the only metric is volume, it works that way for me personally).
When I first started triathlon training a few years ago, I noticed that there were significantly different muscles involved and paid attention to the adaption time and processes. I considered it quite normal and just something I had to deal with. Having been a runner and swimmer all my life and hiking alot in the previous ten years, I was in pretty good physical condition, but nothing compared to where I was headed for triathlon. My body needed to adapt to the bike stresses and then the overall changes in form and function of my body.
So now....after gaining 18-20 pounds and getting a bit out of shape, I'm back into the training. And I have to remember that after six months of no consistent training, my body needs to adapt again. That is difficult to deal with physically and mentally. Physically because there is some pain involved in getting back into running more and biking (consistent swimming comes in January!). Mentally, I am having trouble adapting to only being able to run four miles every day instead of six miles.
I figure after six weeks, I'll be back to my normal (new normal, anyway) self or pretty close to it, and then the physical and mental problems will go away, and I can focus on intensity and then move into race-specific workouts.
Monday, November 28, 2011
Friday, November 25, 2011
Triathlon swim sets and a Pocatello Master's team
Happy Thanksgiving week to everyone! I had a really good training week last week, the first good, full, complete week of training in about three months. I even got in three bike trainer workouts!
Link below to great training advice that is TRIATHLON specific.
Feel For The Water! Advice & Tips to Improve Your Swimming.: The Two Classic Swim Training Mistakes
Great article here about triathlon swim training sets versus swim team and standard masters sets.
I like to do 16x100 at near race pace with a 10-15 second rest, which is also what Swim Smooth is recommending in this.
And it looks like Pocatello is going to get a masters swim program! Wooohooo! Solves two problems for me:
1. I get some coaching on my technique.
2. Timing is great. Sessions to start at 4:45am, so now I don't have to wait til 6am to swim. This makes scheduling much easier.
and I'll now have peer pressure to get me out of bed in the morning!
Tuesday, November 15, 2011
Gear: Kurt Kinetic Wireless Powercomputer
BLUF: The only reason I'm keeping it is because it gives me a consistent power reading, although that reading might be off a bit it is consistent. Other than that power reading, the thing works as advertised, but it's not very user friendly. It is advertised as WIRELESS, but it requires a wire for cadence.....so not exactly as advertised concerning that. I can only recommend this to someone who wants a computer that provides consistent power readings without worrying that it is a computed data point rather than measured.
Setup: Setup was easy for some parts and hard for other things. First, I got to use the magnets from my previous bike computer, which was obviously nice. There's a lot of extra wire available, which is good or bad depending on your own needs. I'm tempted to cut and splice a foot out, but I haven't made that decision yet. The biggest issue with setup is that you have to change the orientation of the mount ninety degrees...a huge annoyance but easy enough to do...what kind of company doesn't fix that in production?
Feel: The bike computer feels light and cheap plastic. I'm nervous about clicking through the buttons because it seems like they're going to break. We'll see if this durability issue is warranted down the road.
Use: The display reads out ok, but the information available sucks. All the reviews I read about this before buying the gear talked about this issue....believe all the negative comments you read about the lack of thought put into how information and stats are displayed. I can see the speed nice and big, but quite small right below/beside it is the heart rate. When I'm hitting a hard Sufferfest! interval and trying to keep up a high heart rate, I need that heart rate to be BIG and READABLE...not the case here. The overall time of the ride is shown all the time, which I personally don't really need and consider it a waste of space.
I have to cycle through the bottom portion of the screen to see in quite small text the watts, avg speed, cadence, temperature (who cares what the exact temperature is?!), and a few other things. What I want is to see in big type the speed, cadence, and heart rate. Everything else, like average cadence, average heart, and such, can be cycled through in small text after the ride. So, I'm not a big of how information is displayed.
Wireless Interference: When I first tried the computer, the readings were wildly erratic, from 2mph to 75mph or something crazy like that. Every data point was acting crazy. I checked the magnets, and they were all good. Then I read the manual (gasp! I know...crazy!), and it said that there can be interference from magnetic forces. My laptop computer is magnetic. I moved it a couple feet away from the bike computer, and presto! all the problems were solved. Lesson: keep your laptop at least a couple feet away from the bike computer monitor. So how do I watch the awesome Sufferfest! videos? I watch them on my Droid X phone only about two feet away from the bike computer, and all is good.
Power Reading: Other reviews talked about the power reading being quite realistic and close to power meters that measure the power rather than compute the power. If you don't know, the Kurt Kinetic power computer computes the wattage via math formulas that are calibrated with the fluid trainer. I simply like knowing that I have another objective, consistent data point to measure and compare. This is truly the poor man's power meter.
Heart Rate Strap: This strap feels much bulkier than my Timex Ironman strap, but once I get going it makes no difference, and I basically forget that it's there. I don't necessarily like the strap, but I don't dislike it either. If I noticed it during the ride, then I would dislike it, but that is not the case here.
Please understand that I don't think my issues with this bike computer in any way relate to the fluid trainer from Kurt Kinetic. That thing is SWEEETT! I think the problem is that a trainer company tried to make a bike computer, resulting in a usable product but definitely not an awesome product.
Monday, November 14, 2011
Mix It Up: Swim After Lifting Weights
This morning I swam after lifting weights. I only did 2x100 + 1x50 for a total of 250 yards, which is the only 250 yards I've swam since mid-June except for the July 1500m I did at the Pocatello Triathlon. Anyway, I knew it was going to be difficult, but it was much harder than I expected. All of last year I was thinking that just 500 yards after any workout would greatly increase my swimming volume during the winter and set me up for a better spring and summer swims.
This 250 yards this morning really worked me. My last 50 yards on 40 seconds, but I highly doubt I could do that even ten times in a row, compared to 15x100 coming in on 1:20 and leaving at 1:40 during normal summer workouts. I didn't time the 2x100s because I just wanted to feel what the water felt like and where my form was at. I could definitely feel the weight lifting session in my strength, and I managed to have some decent form, but it didn't last long because I was so tired.
Anyway.. consider swimming directly after a weights session to mix up your workouts. You'll be surprised. Another option is to lift weights, specifically leg curls and leg presses, before a bike workout...or do the bike and then lift weights.
Sunday, November 13, 2011
Clear Priorities allow Clear Focus
So how to solve that problem? Set clear priorities of effort for spouses based on time of the day or whatever will work for you and allows you to focus on what you want during a specific period of time. My personal example is below.
The last two months have been hard for me because Noah is still waking up at night and early morning. That means I never know if I'll be able to get in a morning workout session. Last year worked great because Paul almost always slept til 7:30, and so I would get 100% priority from 4:30am - 6:40am for my workouts....if Paul needed anything between those hours, Tera would take care of it. And then from 6:40 until he left for school, I would take care of Paul. Tera and I had a deal that clearly defined the priorities of each of us for a set period of time, and that allowed us both to succeed in our goals.
So tonight we made the deal again, a bit different, but the deal has been made. I will get up and give Noah a bottle anytime after we go to bed, and then I get to not worry about it from 4:30am - 6:40 again, just like last year. This allows us to both KNOW EASILY what is supposed to happen in the fog of the night. No questions. No arguing. We both understand what is supposed to be happening. I get to KNOW that I'm going to workout in the morning, and the added pressure of that being my only "window of opportunity" will get me out of bed. Tera gets to know that she'll be able to workout in the morning, too. And, most importantly, our kids will be taken care of appropriately. The juggling act is solved, at least for now. If Noah starts sleeping all night, then I'll be that much happier.
Other examples could be a specific time right after the work day, like 5:30pm - 6:30pm where you get to do a workout after work, but then take the kids the rest of the night. Even if that is the deal for just one night per week, it is one night per week that you get to focus. Choose a night that doesn't have many interruptions that can break the deal....the maturity level comes with how you handle it if you get home later than expected and realize you only have 30 minutes instead of an hour....then what? You shutup and do 30 minutes because that was the deal. Trying to muster more out of the deal because of circumstances neither of you can control doesn't help anyone. Roll with it, and go for something for the 30 minutes in the name of consistency and keeping the deal.
Or it could be a three hour period on Saturday or Sunday morning. Again, the deal is the deal. If the weather sucks or you drank the night before and can't get the whole workout in, that's just the way it is. You get your allotted time period -- no more and no less -- so that the other person can have their time. They've surely planned it out to maximize the time, and screwing with the timeline could break the whole deal. Obviously, there is some give and take on this, but if you are giving more than you are taking, then you need to realize the deal is probably in jeapordy.
Friday, November 11, 2011
Birthday Cake, Veteran's Day, and "Breaking Trail" trailer
The US Marine Corps had its 236th birthday yesterday! Happy Birthday Marines! In the excitement of the day, I forgot to post a note about it! I only had three pieces of cake last night! I was full from a good meal, so I had to bring home about five pounds of it (having to clean up has its privileges). I have a bad sweettooth, and Marine Corps birthday cake is the one thing that I don't care about how much I eat....................
.......except like at the Birthday Ball I went to on Saturday for my drill when I got NO BIRTHDAY CAKE. Yes, that was an atrocious thing! But I survived. I went hunting it down, too, but couldn't find it. Still don't know what happened. However, in its place was an incredible tiramisu that is indeed a top five dessert of my entire lifetime!.
And it's Veteran's Day. Thanks to all you veterans out there....World War II Marines hold a special place in my heart because of the incredible Pacific campaign.
.....and now abruptly changing gears and directions....................
It's getting to be that time of the year! This will get you thinking....
See more on Trailspace at http://www.trailspace.com/blog/2011/11/09/backcountry-film-festival.html
That video is a trailer for a backcountry film festival, opening in Boise today. Dang! I think that would be pretty cool to see....too bad I'm not on that side of the state this weekend.
If you don't know why I'm tying skiing to triathlon, it's because of the great aerobic benefit from backcountry exploration. Climbing 2,000ft a couple of times through powder will wear you out like nothing else. And the change of scenery and fresh air is great motivation.
BTW, yurt sign-ups at Idaho State University are next week, Nov 18th beginning at 0900. I'm told there is a new yurt...hopefully it's at the bottom of Bonneville Peak proper, right at the bottom of the really sweet skiing. I'm hoping for two good yurt nights this year.
Also hoping for a good snow year again. I think I'll end up on cross country skis alot of the time this year again, as I want Paul to learn something on his own, and I think cross-country will facilitate that the best. We can ski a while, then he can get in the cruiser with his brother. Meanwhile, Mommy gets to stay home in a nice and quiet house and get some MUCH NEEDED personal quiet time. Win Win Win on that one.